Fathers, Are You Choking the Blessing?
Today is Father’s Day and we will wrap up our study on the blessings of God. We looked first at Numbers chapter 6 and we will end up there again today. God so much wants and yearns to bless those who are bought by the blood of His Son, Jesus Christ.
When God created Adam and Eve in Genesis 1, the first thing He did was to give them a blessing and then told them to be fruitful and multiply. He started off by blessing them. In Revelation 22:14, we see that God in the last words of His letter to us reminds us that we will be blessed if we keep His commandments. He starts and finishes His book by showing us He wants to bless us. Ephesians 1 also tells us that not only does He want to bless us, but also God will bless us with all spiritual blessings through Christ.
Over the last several weeks, we looked at the blessing of God found in Matthew 5. We learned that God’s love is unconditional but His blessings are conditional. First, we must be God’s child to receive His blessing, Revelation 19:9. We must repent and trust Him as our Lord and Savior to become His child. Secondly, several times in Psalms and in Matthew 5 we see that phrase, “blessed are those who…” We must be obedient to God to receive His blessings.
Now put with that Deuteronomy 6. We see that it is the father’s and men’s job in general to teach spiritual matters to their children and to children around them. We are to teach them non-stop. David gives us some insight on what happens when a man teaches these truths with his words and actions. Blessings flowed his way even after he was off the scene because of His righteousness, I Kings 15:1, II Kings 19:32-34. However, a life lived by a father can also bring cursing, Numbers 14:18. The choice is yours.
Now let’s look at the roles of men and women. I Corinthians 11 give us the hierarchy of blessing. First, there is God the Father. Then, the Son followed by man. Woman and then children come next. This is very simple, yet our society today has it almost exactly backwards. Children pretty much run the families while the mothers try to maintain some sense of order while the fathers show up once in a while only to get frustrated and hide again. If our families are to be blessed we must do it God’s way. Men, we need to be the spiritual leaders in our families and in our churches. It is God’s design and when we change it, we break it.
So, men, where are you? Are you living a godly life causing God to bless your family? Or is God going to have to curse your family?