Making It Personal
Since relationships are a gift from God that need to be stewarded, there are several characteristics of good friendships that we can work on. These principles were found in the Old Testament and reiterated in the New Testament just showing that God is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow.
First, no matter what day it is, no matter what the circumstances are, friends love at all times, Prov. 17:17, I Cor. 13:4-8. Also, nothing can tear friends apart for they are closer than a brother, Prov. 18:24, Eph. 4:1-3. A true friend also shows compassion in times of suffering, Ps. 35:13, Rom. 12:15. A friend never takes advantage of another when times are tough and emotions are high.
A friend also offers wise counsel even when it may be tough and painful, Prov. 27:9, Col. 3:16. A friend does not tear down at any time, Ps. 15:3, Eph. 4:29. Also, a friend does not seek its own but rather pushes the other to faithfulness regardless of self -interests, Job. 6:14, Col. 3:12-14.
In closing remember two more characteristics. One, a friend always intercedes for the other in prayer, Job 42:10, Eph. 6:18. Who are you praying for today? Lastly, a friend can always be trusted for they are seeking the well being of the other, not self, Prov. 27:6, Gal. 6:1, 2. Once again, a true friend is one in Christ and through Christ for He makes it all possible and relationships are a gift from God. Let‘s be good stewards of God’s gifts.